Entrepreneurship

We are always experiencing hard times and we need to survive economically in order to have a descent life. There are two polarities in this issue: to be self-employed or to be an employee.

If you will be an employee forever, you will never have the chance of becoming rich. But, to be self-employed coupled with hard work and perseverance, there is always the possibility of becoming materially wealthy. Most of the rich people now are entrepreneurs or businessmen. They created their own company, employed a lot of people and helped the country.

But, the question with entrepreneurship is sustainability, meaning until when will it last, will it be forever because there is always a space for bankruptsy.

The ideal strategy is you have both, so that you have a fall back in case of danger. Be an employee for sure income and have a business as your sideline for additional income. In the future, it is your decision which to prioritize or even decide to focus on one thing only.

Bisexuality

Having both worlds-male and female! This is the trend now among singles and married men. Why? It is because people are not satisfied with one flavor, people look for something different always even in terms of sexuality.

There is always the tendency for human beings to be bored of having similar thing and so they explore to find something different. This is human nature whether it is consciously or unconsciously in relation to sexuality. The concept of forbidden love makes an individual search for the taste of it especially when it is taboo. Humans feel more thrilled, challenged about adventuresome when it is forbidden especially in sexuality. This is the mystery of human sexuality.

There are many cases when some playboys or womanizers become manizers or playgirls because they tried a lot of girls and there came a point in their lives when they wanted something different - same sex. This could be a phenomenon but this is an on-going reality in our society. Will it stop? I don't think so!

What about the issue of morality or ethics? Traditionally speaking, it is wrong to experience such. But, nowadays, almost everything is relative, it depends! It is for the person to decide. It is a choice with equivalent responsibility or accountability. It is a controversial issue of HAPPINESS!

Just Shut Up, If You Can't Say Anything Good!

Due to insecurity, professional jealousy or envy or simply call it crab mentality. Filipinos are fond of uttering nasty or just being mean against their fellow Filipinos. It is so pathetic that this is the only way an individual can be even with somebody higher than him/her in whatever case it maybe.

This is because you don't hsve what the other person has, you look for waht ever negative the person might have because nobody is perfect and you try to ventilate it consciously or unconsciously with other people to ruin the other person.

Just shut up, if you can't say anything good! If you can't help yourself to become good or better, just mind your own business and don't affect others of your own miseries. There are many people who are just good in complaining but they don't act on their own complaints directly.

This is the reason why this country will go nowhere because there are many Filipinos who are problem-oriented and not solution-oriented.

Single Blessedness Is A Calling

Life is indeed unfair because there are many unwritten rules in the society which are unjust to humanity. One major issue is in relation to one's vocation- whether married, single or priest/nun.

What is the unwritten rule? Society will demand and judge you automatically that if you are not a priest or nun, you have to get married or else you are gay or lesbian. Others will even say that if you are "good looking" you are either gay/lesbian or taken. These are toxic ideas or fallacies which are affecting one's mental hygiene or mental health. Society is very cruel. These are not true and people believe it to be true. That's why they marry for wrong reasons and just end up in the statistics of broken marriages which is the trend now.

Society rejected the reality of "Single Blessedness!" Sometimes some think to be single is a misnimer. They simply forget single blessedness is a calling! It is even a choice! Is it hard to believe that there are people who are not really for marriage? Others will say that if you are happy being single why marry somebody you don't even know and take the risk of getting into a relationship which is sometimes bound to fail due to varied reasons?

Sometimes, due to societal pressure, those who are being doubted to be gay or lesbian even if it is not true tend to rebel in the society and so they make it happen.They decided to explore what is this societal prejudice of homosexuality among singles. Sad to say, some enjoyed the thrill/adventure of it and at the end they become gay/lesbian.

People don't get married for so many reasons which narrowminded individuals cannot understand and instead of minding their own business, they will start rumor mmongering or the business of gossip which is very much or highly profitable nowadays. Reasons of poverty, hereditary fatal disease, character/attitude problem and other logical justifications are just being responsible individuals for becoming singles for life. They just don't want to victimize their future children to experience the bad genetics and questionable environment we live in today. This is acceptable which others cannot understand.

It is fearful to marry nowadays because there is an escalating number of married couples undergoing annulment due to reasons they only know. Love is not only the ingredient of long and lasting married relationship. If you cannot supply the financial demands of married life, love will exit and later on annulment will follow or problems of infidelity etc. Gone are the days of our grandparents and parents where fidelity was still at least a value. But in the here and now, we are living in a different world where infidelity is the name of the game. As if, if you are not an infidel, you are not in.

In every vocation, whether you are married, single or priest/nun, there are always advantages and disadvantages. Let us just respect one's vocation and pray for their success and happiness and stop mocking each other's vocation.

"The best is you are preventing the unfair victimization on innocent children." Life is a risk, it is a choice, sad if you are a victim of life you did not choose. Could it be possible? You alone can answer that based from your own experience.

By the way, there are gay priests, lesbian nuns, gay/lesbian married individuals, in other words, just a cover-up of their own homosexuality. Therefore, it is really unfair to single out that singles are homosexuals because they chose not to get married or priest/nun. Sometimes, this judgemental attitude is simply a projection of their own homosexuality.