Options

In everything you think, feel and do, you should always have options. This is the best strategy in life. Always remember to have plan A UP TO Plan Z to be sure because life is difficult. When you run out of options what is left is nothing which means you become nothing and when you're nothing what will happen to you? Nothing!!!

If you want to have something you should do something and what is this something? Simply options!!! The only thing to do with your options is learn to prioritize according to your own criteria based on your own situation. Then, act it out and take the responsibility in your own decision. Always learn from your mistakes in order to perfect the imperfect. This is the only way to survive in life.

Help yourself to be the best that you can become like capitalize from your potentials in order for you to have many options. Be open to many things which you think may help you succeed in life. Sometimes you may choose to risk as long as it is a calculated risk. The power is within you discover it now or never!

Dentistry The Best Course

In my own analysis of different courses or professions, I found out that the dental field is the best. Why? For the following reasons: it is cheaper than medicine (in terms of tuition fee and shorter than medicine in terms of professional preparation only 5 years), you have a title before your name "Dr." which is a value among Filipinos, be of service to a lot of people especially to the young in terms of dental hygiene etc., financial promise by earning a lot of money, job stability, but do you know the best reason?

The best reason is you don't have a boss. You are the boss!!! The worst kind of employment is you have a boss and you are an employee because you will never become rich if you are an employee. The best is being self-employed like being a dentist either at home or in the company or both (more money!),

That's why parents should motivate their children to take up courses which will give them self-employment like dentistry. Don't let your children take up courses which will only make them forever employees and suffer the injustices in the workplace like crab mentality, sexual harrassment, losing one's dignity and self respect from your boss etc. Parents save your children from wrong choice of course/profession!!!

If I will be given another life I will choose to become a dentist for sanity purpose first and foremost because being an employee is the worst choice that I ever done in in my life. It is the reason why people become criminals, insanes, atheists and simply zombies (corrupt etc.).

God's Sadisitic Love

What kind of God is your God? My God is a God of Love but He loves sadistically because the more He loves the more he rebukes you.

The more you pray, try your best to be holy and do good, the more He sends you trials up to the extent of giving up to your faith. But the moment you give up, it is the time He will rescue you (Footprints in the Sand. It is unfair! Is He playing with me, with my life? What is this, "Spiritual Sadism/Masochism?"

That's why sometimes it is better not to pray anymore and not to hope anymore because it is less hurting when you experience frustrations in life inspite of all your good deeds and sacrifices just to be good. No wonder why people either end up in the cemetery (suicide) or mental hospital (insanity). Some became zombies, living dead, no sense of meaning in life, mechanical robotic routinary life!

Why is it that those who are bad are the ones becoming rich and successful?
It is unfair! Life is unfair! Life comes from God! God is unfair!!!

Crab Mentality

This is the reason why the Philippines is going nowhere. The intelligent and multi-talented Filipinos are leaving the country because they are victims of crab mentality. They are threats to those mediocres who are not doing something for their ownselves to become better. But, instead, they do negative politicking in the organization where they work against those gifted Filipinos who can offer a lot based on their achievements and credentials.

These crabs cannot get what those achievers have and the only thing that they can do is to do negative acts (professional jealousy/envy) by being crabs. Always remember that "You cannot put a good man down" because this man will always shine wherever he goes.

What is happening is the sad reality that your strengths become your liabilities.

Brotherhood Within The Perspective Of Sense Of Self

Brotherhood is a common term, but, what is the meaning of this term? For me, brotherhood is a collective word for the essential values which every person should possess in order to transcend the sovereignty of nations.

What are these essential values? Sense of self, unity, understanding, respect, dignity, honesty, peace, hope, trust, faith and nationalism are the so-called values embedded in brotherhood.

Sense of self is the foundation of all these essential values because a person without a sense of self will never attain anything. There are four components/stages of sense of self: Self-knowledge, Self-acceptance, Self-love, and Self-transformation.

Self-knowledge is being aware of one’s weaknesses and strengths. What are you going to do with your weaknesses and strengths? You have to give solution to your weaknesses in order for it to become your strengths. Then, develop your strengths and make it better because you are living in a competitive world. Try to perfect your craft so that no one can take it away from you. Therefore, everything becomes your strengths. You become a fully competitive, secured and positive person in the process of self-knowledge which you only owe to yourself.

Self-acceptance is the acknowledgement of both weaknesses and strengths in the positive change process. It is easy to love one’s self once you accepted yourself. Self-love is helping one’s self grow and develop to the fullest good by nurturing the positive potentials within and eradicating the negatives in the process of perfection.

When self-love has been attained, the challenge is to reach the apex of self-foundation which is self-transformation. It is almost automatic to achieve self-transformation when somebody has reached the level of self-love because changing one’s self to be the best that you can become is geared towards self-transformation.

Self-transformation is the product of the first three stages of sense of self. It is the time when you feel that you have to offer something for the betterment of the society.

In analysis of the sense of self, you cannot know others if you don’t know yourself. You cannot accept others if you cannot accept yourself. You cannot love others if you don’t love yourself. And, you cannot transform society if you cannot transform yourself first.

Everything is within one’s self. That’s why, whatever positive in us within the sense of self emanates the transcendence process of sovereignty of nations. It is because each nation is composed of people who are in journey with their sense of self and at the same time experiencing the shared process of brotherhood among them.

The transcending process out of brotherhood of man based on the sense of self liberates every man of each nation to achieve its common goal of goodness to make this world a better world to live in as we co-exist in building this world with harmony and interdependence considering our unique cultural heritage and history.

This sense of self brings about unity and understanding among individuals of all nations. In unity there is strength in fulfilling a common purpose of brotherhood of man. In understanding each individual concerns, respect to one’s dignity exists. Respect to the cultural independence of all nations creates a unity in diversity.

In connection with this, trust, faith and honesty are necessary to transcend the sovereignty of nations out of the brotherhood of man. Trust builds a deep interpersonal relationship which solidifies the quality of brotherhood. Faith makes the light burning from within in order to move on in life. Honesty gives character to a person.

Thus, in spite of cultural differences, every person of each race embracing its own nationalism is continuing to hope for meaning in life. This hope for meaning in life propels the brotherhood of man. Therefore, this brotherhood of man transcends the sovereignty of nations based from the sense of self of men of diversified cultures.

Once the brotherhood of man was put into practice, there is no question why sovereignty of nations will not be attained. But, the question is, do we have the capacity to focus on our own sense of self in order for brotherhood of man be realized?

We have to start from the basic premise, "Know Thyself", which is our selfhood. The future of brotherhood of man in relation to its transcending process of sovereignty of nations will only depend on the quality of the sense of self of all of us living in this planet.

If we want to achieve our common goal of brotherhood in order for sovereignty to exist, we have to start to process the sense of self among us now or never! This is the challenge to all of us in order to have a world of tomorrow anchored on peace, unity, understanding, justice, hope, respect, dignity, love, honesty, trust, faith and nationalism.("Unity in Diversity").

Let us make freedom and independence be a reality out of our respect to cultural diversity of nations! Let us make this brotherhood and sovereignty our legacy to humanity! Let us make all of these ideals happen NOW!!!

Capitalism

This has been much talked about issue in history in relation to economics. The problem is even if capitalism is the prevailing system being followed at the present time by business enterprises.

Speaking of business enterprise, an academic institution (school) also follows the capitalist principle which is maximum profit regardless of this dignity of the employees. This principle is against morality and ethics. It is immoral because the management is only after for its optimum financial gains and not benefits or salary of employees. The concerns of the employees are always the last priority.

It is a sad reality that the future of the business will always have employee factor which is taken for granted and yet they are treated like slaves. The management will not follow labor laws but instead challenge or twist the law in their favor. This injustice is existing even in schools, college and unversities.

Everybody will die. The only question is the impact and the quantity of people who were affected by our action either negative or positive. How many were miserable or happy because of you?

There is always karma or the golden rule. If ever you have done wrong, for sure bad karma will be experienced by your clan and future generation stemming from your family tree.

When we have done so much wrong against others, for sure we will suffer a lot in purgatory. Always remember that one day in purgatory is equivalent to 100 days here on earth.

Entrepreneurship

We are always experiencing hard times and we need to survive economically in order to have a descent life. There are two polarities in this issue: to be self-employed or to be an employee.

If you will be an employee forever, you will never have the chance of becoming rich. But, to be self-employed coupled with hard work and perseverance, there is always the possibility of becoming materially wealthy. Most of the rich people now are entrepreneurs or businessmen. They created their own company, employed a lot of people and helped the country.

But, the question with entrepreneurship is sustainability, meaning until when will it last, will it be forever because there is always a space for bankruptsy.

The ideal strategy is you have both, so that you have a fall back in case of danger. Be an employee for sure income and have a business as your sideline for additional income. In the future, it is your decision which to prioritize or even decide to focus on one thing only.